If you see a beautiful woman, start moving your feet. Everything else will take care of itself #3secondrule
There is a great series of pictures on the web site “sadanduseless.com” such as the one to the left here that demonstrate a very “beta” trait of a lot of guys out there – “Hover Hand”. (Thanks goes out to my buddy RooshV from “Bang! More Lays in 60 Days” for telling me about the site).
Sure, you maybe don’t know these girls, but what are you so afraid of?
If she’s touching you, grab her around the waist and pull her close! One of the key things we tell guys is “assume knowing” — you’re being about as cold and distant and “uninterested” as a guy can be — so if you’re up close and talking to a woman in a situation like this, grab her buy the waist and give her a gentle squeeze. Pull her in a bit close and take the opportunity to whisper something in her ear (just don’t be creepy doing it).
Being comfortable around women is a must have trait if you’re going to learn to seduce women – even if it’s just a single quality relationship you’re after instead of the “pickup artist” lifestyle. And if you’re after the pickup artist lifestyle – you definitely need to be comfortable touching women!
Last night I ran a small workshop for shy guys – it’s designed to get guys comfortable with the tension of talking to “hot women”… we start out with some theory and take it to a strip club for “immersion therapy” so I can get a good handle on specific aspects of “things needing work”.. (learn more about the workshops here - or try a LoveSystems boot camp in your area).
Anyway, we bounced after a couple of hours to a regular night club to work on approaching “regular” women…
Now, I know I’ve said this before, but it needs said again:
If you’re going to flirt, be ready to make the approach.
You’re telling the girl you’re interested and if you get smiles and acknowledgements back – she is interested in you. Approach and start a conversation!
It was obvious with a couple of my clients that a couple of attractive ladies were getting “frustrated” by the flirting, but lack of approaching. Guys, you know who you are!
If you’re stuck with approach anxiety too, check this out for some great tips.
We’ve actually been “in the field” a lot over the past bit – working on some exciting new stuff for you guys.
Until that is all ready to release, we’ll try to get back and running with some regular articles, videos and PDF’s.
Here are a few ebooks and reports you can download and review:
Just “right click” and “save as” to keep a copy of the above PDF’s on your computer for reading when you get time!
One of the great advantages of meeting women outside bars and clubs is the wide range of places you can meet women. At night you’re limited to bars, lounges, and clubs. In the daytime you can meet women anywhere like coffee shops, theme parks, grocery stores, and so on.
Another great thing about daytime environments is that you can expect certain women to be at a certain place. If you meet someone in a book store, you are almost certain that she is someone who likes to read. If you meet a girl in an art gallery, good chance she is creative and likes art. A night club or bar is kind of a mixed bag. You never know what kind of women you run into.
Jeremy Soul, who is widely regarded as the top expert at day game, has released his new book “Daytime Dating” which is all about how you can meet women in outside bars and clubs. Here are his 3 favorite places to meet women outside bars and clubs.
There are always beautiful women walking down the busy shopping streets and there is a constant stream of women coming in and out. Unlike what most people think, stopping a woman on the street and starting a conversation is actually easy with some practice. In Daytime Dating you can read how to exactly stop a woman on the street, because there are some subtle techniques explained to stop a woman from walking and making her listen to what you have to say.
Malls are great because they are indoors so they are usually crowded all four seasons. Plus there are a lot of shops in one area and malls usually has a food court. You can meet a lot of women who are normally working in stores, but on the food court you can catch them off guard when they are not working. There are more challenges in malls because most women there tend to be in groups, but in Daytime Dating you can find specific tips and techniques to handle groups in daytime environments. It is actually easier than you think.
You won’t find that many women in a coffee shop compared to a bar or club, but occasionally you will run into women you want to get to know. Most of the time women are by themselves and another great advantage is that most of them are seated. Which means they are not going anywhere soon and you have more time to have a good conversation. Let’s not forget that women seated by themselves are secretly waiting to be approached. If she wanted to read a book, she could do that home….
If you are interested in meet women outside bars and clubs, you’re in luck. Love Systems, the premier dating company, has released Daytime Dating which teaches you simple steps to meeting and attracting women you meet in daytime environments. Authored by Jeremy Soul, widely regarded as the expert on day game, you will discover a system you can use right away to start conversations with women in streets, malls, coffee shops, and more places. Check it out here.
If you’ve studied and read pick up advice as long as I have, you’ll know that there are just some things that can’t be explained in words.
They have to be SEEN.
Certain body language, escalating on a girl physically, gestures and positioning, etc.
I can’t believe no one has done this until now, but there’s FINALLY a site that has a WHOLE LIBRARY of videos showing successful guys meeting women in REAL TIME.
Check out the preview video below, and then click on over to PickupTubeand check out the site. They have both free and paid membership options. Trust me when I say this: Go straight to the paid options. Lots of excellent bonus videos and pickup break-downs to maximize your learning!
Click here for more from PickupTube — save yourself hours searching on youtube, only to find sub-par quality stuff.