Posts tagged ‘confidence’

January 9th, 2011

A simple way to improve your results…

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January 6th, 2011

I Can’t Help You!

a very angry child

angry angry child courtesy of mdanys (flickr)

I’m not normally one to turn away good business – but some times you just know it’s not going to be good.

Earlier today, I went to an appointment – I had been contacted by the mother of a 21 year old “boy”.  She did a good job of explaining things on the phone prior to me visiting with her and her son – doesn’t have a girlfriend, never had one yet, has social anxiety problems, minimal friends and so on.

Sure, I can work with him, I say – I would recommend him on my mentoring program and help him build up his social skills (he’s a video game junkie that has no job and no friends – what I call the “zombification of the real world”) and proceed into dating from there.  I’ve helped lots of other guys get through similar situations.

Well, it turns out this 21 year old “boy” – is just that – a boy.  And not just that, but one that is very angry with everyone around him – about everything that is “wrong” in his life.    Everyone else is to blame for his life that sucks.  His mom (single parent) and his grandma.  The girl across the street who won’t date him – just says “let’s be friends”.  It’s everyone else’s problem – except for his.

Let’s see here.  Twenty-One years old, no job,  and a complete lack of social skills.  To top it off, he takes absolutely no responsibility for himself around his mom’s house (where he lives, and leeches off her).  Mom does all the work, all the cleaning, all the stuff.  He plays games and complains non-stop.

Sorry, but I draw the line here.  You have to do some of this stuff on your own.  You can’t be angry with anyone but yourself for how your life is right now.  If you have a problem, you have to want to change and you have to take responsibility for that change and a responsibility for your own life.

From my “old school” way of thinking – “Man Up!“.

If you’re of adult age, you need to be responsible for your own actions and your own life.   Blaming everyone else for your problems is NOT attractive.  It never will be attractive, it will always be a turn off – and not just for women either.  It is a turn off for everyone around you.  Being responsible doesn’t mean giving up on being fun.  Being responsible is a part of being a man.  A man that demonstrates attractiveness and social strength.

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January 5th, 2011

seduction ebooks: the file list

our assistant - EMJ (M-J)

our assistant, Em-J (Emily)click the pic for her twitter

We’ve had a few folks asking if we have a complete list of the free ebooks for easy download, so I guess it’s that time that we put together a “file list”.

We’re going to start to keep the files on “DropBox” – you should check it out and sign up for a free account to keep your important files in. You can keep stuff private for yourself, or share it with others – just as we’re doing here!

This is a partial list of a few of our more recent ebooks and documents…  We have more we’ll add to the list as we get them organized better.

These are all PDF files (unless otherwise noted), so “right click” on the link and select “save-as” to download the PDF to your computer/tablet/smartphone for reading.

New additions:

11 ways to screw up the first date

understanding her signals

getting quality girls

daytime dating

being single is just as good

spending money on dating women

six tips for a great night out

how to score on a first date

cheating and infidelity

dating shy girls


Seduction:

5 days to self confidence
conversational chemistry
conversation blueprint
dance game secrets
facebook pickup methods
instant attraction program
is she interested?
avoiding bad first dates
getting girls to notice you
understanding women
secret weapons and attraction tactics
strip club seduction
biggest mistakes you’re making
3 keys to pickup lines

Field Reports / Student Reviews:

is it really this easy

Romance:

101 Romantic Ideas

Fitness / Health:

great abs mistake
your posture
stubborn fat
mission abs
simple fat burning workout
six pack abs revealed
skyrocket your fat loss
training nutrition secrets
the truth about burning fat
10 minute workout
the 444 workout
interval training report
2010 weight loss
stay fit while travelling
turbulence training program

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January 4th, 2011

Spotting a Virgin Guy…


A sure sign you're not comfortable with women... "Hover Hand"!

There is a great series of pictures on the web site “sadanduseless.com” such as the one to the left here that demonstrate a very “beta” trait of a lot of guys out there – “Hover Hand”. (Thanks goes out to my buddy RooshV from “Bang! More Lays in 60 Days” for telling me about the site).

Sure, you maybe don’t know these girls, but what are you so afraid of?

If she’s touching you, grab her around the waist and pull her close!    One of the key things  we tell guys is “assume knowing” — you’re being about as cold and distant and “uninterested” as a guy can be — so if you’re up close and talking to a woman in a situation like this, grab her buy the waist and give her a gentle squeeze.    Pull her in a bit close and take the opportunity to whisper something in her ear (just don’t be creepy doing it).

Being comfortable around women is a must have trait if you’re going to learn to seduce women – even if it’s just a single quality relationship you’re after instead of the “pickup artist” lifestyle.  And if you’re after the pickup artist lifestyle – you definitely need to be comfortable touching women!

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October 14th, 2010

Instantly Attract Any Woman Free Report1

instant attraction

Understanding what women want, how to handle ‘tricky’ situations &’deal’ with them in ways that creates & AMPLIFIES attraction in them for youis both a complicated & not so complicated process but more importantly, it is a LEARNED skill.

Download this FREE report PDF file for some ‘top secret’ techniques! (right click and select “save-as”).

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