Posts tagged ‘dating’

January 9th, 2011

A simple way to improve your results…

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January 6th, 2011

I Can’t Help You!

a very angry child

angry angry child courtesy of mdanys (flickr)

I’m not normally one to turn away good business – but some times you just know it’s not going to be good.

Earlier today, I went to an appointment – I had been contacted by the mother of a 21 year old “boy”.  She did a good job of explaining things on the phone prior to me visiting with her and her son – doesn’t have a girlfriend, never had one yet, has social anxiety problems, minimal friends and so on.

Sure, I can work with him, I say – I would recommend him on my mentoring program and help him build up his social skills (he’s a video game junkie that has no job and no friends – what I call the “zombification of the real world”) and proceed into dating from there.  I’ve helped lots of other guys get through similar situations.

Well, it turns out this 21 year old “boy” – is just that – a boy.  And not just that, but one that is very angry with everyone around him – about everything that is “wrong” in his life.    Everyone else is to blame for his life that sucks.  His mom (single parent) and his grandma.  The girl across the street who won’t date him – just says “let’s be friends”.  It’s everyone else’s problem – except for his.

Let’s see here.  Twenty-One years old, no job,  and a complete lack of social skills.  To top it off, he takes absolutely no responsibility for himself around his mom’s house (where he lives, and leeches off her).  Mom does all the work, all the cleaning, all the stuff.  He plays games and complains non-stop.

Sorry, but I draw the line here.  You have to do some of this stuff on your own.  You can’t be angry with anyone but yourself for how your life is right now.  If you have a problem, you have to want to change and you have to take responsibility for that change and a responsibility for your own life.

From my “old school” way of thinking – “Man Up!“.

If you’re of adult age, you need to be responsible for your own actions and your own life.   Blaming everyone else for your problems is NOT attractive.  It never will be attractive, it will always be a turn off – and not just for women either.  It is a turn off for everyone around you.  Being responsible doesn’t mean giving up on being fun.  Being responsible is a part of being a man.  A man that demonstrates attractiveness and social strength.

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January 4th, 2011

How to Talk to Women by CarlosX

Are you stuck in getting your conversations with women to go anywhere?

Carlos Xuma has a great program entitled “How to Talk to Women”.  It’s a little bit on the pricey side (just under $100, at the time of this writing) – BUT it’s not just an ebook!

You’re getting an ebook reference manual, PLUS  –10– Video modules, an MP3 audio of bantering and a mind map showing you an easy flow chart of your new communication skills.  (Carlos is even letting you split payments to make it bit easier on the wallet).  But, I’ve reviewed the material and can tell you, it’s well worth the money.  I’ve spent twice as much on twice as less.  Carlos is a great instructor and passes along lots of great information that will have you at a much higher level of communication with women.

Have her excited to hear from you, or have a first date talking nothing but great stuff to all her friends.

CLICK HERE to jump to the How to Talk to Women web site and learn more!

Don’t forget, if you buy the program, come back here and leave a comment with your very own review… you’ll have a chance to win our very own ebook – “After the Opener: Small Talk For Seduction”.

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